Concern Level: High
The seamstress the story revolves around arrives in secret at a fancy palace. We soon find out the woman who she will be making dresses for is actual... → Continue reading below
The Prince and the Dressmaker
VERDICT: Avoid
Concern Level: High

Concern LevelHigh
Concerning & Potentially Concerning Content
The seamstress the story revolves around arrives in secret at a fancy palace. We soon find out the woman who she will be making dresses for is actually the prince. Yes, you read that right. This graphic novel is about a prince who has a secret and the seamstress who keeps it. He wants nothing more than to wear dresses, cross-dressing and going out on the town. You can likely guess what comes next. When asked why he wears girl’s clothes he replies, “Some days I feel like I’m actually a princess”. He also says, “my whole life is other people deciding what’s acceptable. When I put on a dress, I get to decide what’s silly”. When worried he makes the incredibly unfortunate comment, “What happens if she discovers who I really am?” And the seamstress joins in to really bring the message home, “When I saw you last night something clicked. You really are Lady Crystallis. It was you, but you were more. Bigger. More amazing. You were like a goddess version of yourself. It was magic” to which he replies, “You know, I felt it too!”. This culminates by saying, “This is who he is”. We should also say that the illustrated format makes this whole thing especially disturbing, especially considering the audience that will inevitably end up in front of this book. Late in the book the prince, while dressed as a woman, gets completely drunk and a man uses the opportunity to make an advance on him (thinking him to be a woman). The book takes an unexpected turn when the cross-dressing prince and the seamstress almost and then ultimately do embrace and kiss. And then, at the end, the large, macho king himself comes out in a fashion show dressed as a woman along with his guards… so there’s that. There is plenty more here. Early in the book a woman comes to the dressmaker and asks her to “make me look like the devil’s wench” to which she obliges, creating a disturbing looking dress (this is what brings the dressmaker to the cross-dressing prince’s attention). While at a ball, a mother comments, “I brought all four of my daughters. I figure one of them will be sloppy enough to bag the Prince”. A woman is shown smoking a cigar. A man comments, “Looking at all these princesses makes a man want to blow off a little steam, right?” There is a reference to absinthe. We read “oh my God”, naked body, idiot and “bloody hell”. A couple images feel a bit revealing (e.g., a man holding a woman at a ballet).
VerdictAvoid
Our Thoughts
The cover of this book really feels symbolic. On the surface we see a young prince and a smiling peasant girl and think, “we know this story” and start to feel warm feelings. But like so much of this modern culture, something that was safe and heartwarming is instead to be found to be incredibly harmful. On the cover we see a background image come into focus once we look hard enough and see the womanly looking person in a dress is actually a man. Within the covers of the book, we find a harmful story that should not be put anywhere near a child wrapped up in bright and illustrated graphic novel format. One note. The fact that this is a “Goodreads Choice Award nominee” should be a glaring warning that Christians need to be very careful where they get their information from. More importantly, from a Christian parent perspective we should be reminded that there are many people made in the image of our loving God who have been deceived into thinking they are something different than who God created them to be. We need to remember that we are called to never compromise the message that this is always wrong, in any of its forms… but we are also called to show love and bring God’s hope of restoration through Jesus Christ alone to all the ends of the earth… including people who wear dresses or write books that deceive kids into thinking this is ok. We are His image-bearers. We are the ones to bring His message to all. As for this book. It is very much an Avoid.
Plot SummaryNote: This information is typically from the publisher.Use with caution
Paris, at the dawn of the modern age: Prince Sebastian is looking for a bride―or rather, his parents are looking for one for him. Sebastian is too busy hiding his secret life from everyone. At night he puts on daring dresses and takes Paris by storm as the fabulous Lady Crystallia―the hottest fashion icon in the world capital of fashion! Sebastian’s secret weapon is his brilliant dressmaker, Frances―his best friend and one of only two people who know the truth: sometimes this boy wears dresses. But Frances dreams of greatness, and being someone’s secret weapon means being a secret. Forever. How long can Frances defer her dreams to protect her friend? Jen Wang weaves an exuberantly romantic tale of identity, young love, art, and family. A fairy tale for any age, The Prince and the Dressmaker will steal your heart.
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Read ReviewThose who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God's law, nor can it do so. Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.
— Romans 8:5-8
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