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Stepping Stones: (A Graphic Novel)

VERDICT: Avoid

Concern Level: Medium-High

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Concerning & Potentially Concerning Content

This book, in its little kid attracting colorful graphic novel form, is full of modern issues Christian parents will not want in front of their children. Two farmers live next door to the family home. In this book we see the illustrated implication that the seem to be a “couple”. They stand close in pictures and there is a quick reference to “our nephew”. This is one of the reasons we decided to review the whole series and, as we feared, in the two books that follow, after the young reader is drawn in, the author goes further to show these men as in fact being romantically involved. Mom and her new boyfriend have moved in together and this is shown as completely normal. Jen’s mom’s boyfriend is also divorced and has his kids visit on weekends. The main character Jen leaves a lot to be desired. The book opens with her making a list of things she hates, which begins with chores and mom’s new boyfriend. Especially early in the book, whenever mom asks her to help she complains, sighs, makes rude comments, rolls eyes, etc. She says things like, “Fine” and “Geez. Ok, fine”. Even worse, mom does not correct her for this type of behavior. She really has a terrible attitude for much of this book. When mad she storms off and completely ignores her mom and mom’s boyfriend calling her back. At one point in frustration she tells her mother, “Well, you’re failing. You failed at being married and now you’re failing at this stupid farm”... so there’s that. The “mom’s boyfriend” character is one that is really unkind to Jen. In the extra content of one of the books the author mentioned he is one of her favorite characters because of his impact on the reader, but we would have to strongly disagree. His attitude and the response he pulls out of Jen are almost entirely negative. One of his daughters calls her sister a crybaby for sincerely missing her mom. She also tells Jen “sisters are overrated. You have to share everything with them, and you fight a lot”. Another major concern has to do with the author’s other works. This is her first graphic novel for kids. So what are the other several books, and why are they advertised at the start of this colorful book for kids? Well one we saw includes this in the description “follows Lucy’s personal transition into motherhood but also illustrates the history and science of reproductive health from all angles, including curious facts and inspiring (and notorious) figures in medicine and midwifery”. Other items to be aware of: Comic books are shown in a positive light (they tend to be very dark and often immoral today) A girl in a comic says she needs to look “flirty” The term jerkface is used Under a list of options Jen considers “run away” is listed A flashback shows a fight between mom and dad pre-divorce The girls decide to “tell secrets” and are then shown whispering to each other

Our Thoughts

The author tells us that she “has always tried to use her work to make people feel less alone through honest and confessional comics”. This really helps shine a light on the problem from a Christian perspective. There are so many of these books aimed at children that seem to be saying, “let’s show them how the world and growing up really is”. They then proceed to fill the pages with all types of negativity under the banner of “reality”. This is even sadder given the book format, that draws in very young children. But for Christians, the ultra sinfulness and brokenness of this world are NOT what we are pointing our kids to. We want real heroes and role models. We want faith-building content. We want morality and goodness. That is not this book. The very end provides a small glimpse of heart change… and then the book abruptly ends, almost as if it is only willing to hint at anything good or redeeming. Most of our least favorite graphic novels fall into a category of an adult telling a relatively unfiltered story of their broken childhood in a format that points at young children. We find that again here as the author tells us this is based in large part on her experiences growing up. We have this one as a clear “Avoid” for Christians. Note for Christian parents: we are adding reviews for the sequel graphic novels as well.

Plot SummaryNote: This information is typically from the publisher.Use with caution

NATIONAL BESTSELLER • The first book in an acclaimed graphic novel series inspired by the author’s own childhood tells an amazing story of unlikely friends, sisters, and home. “This candid, heartwarming look at a child grappling with major changes will resonate with fans of Raina Telgemeier and Svetlana Chmakova and anyone trying to find their place.”—School Library Journal, starred review Jen did not want to leave the city. She did not want to move to a farm with her mom and her mom's new boyfriend, Walter. She did not want to leave her friends and her dad. Most of all, Jen did not want to get new "sisters," Andy and Reese. As if learning new chores on Peapod Farm wasn't hard enough, having to deal with perfect-at-everything Andy might be the last straw for Jen. Besides cleaning the chicken coop, trying to keep up with the customers at the local farmers' market, and missing her old life, Jen has to deal with her own insecurities about this new family . . . and where she fits in. Look for the whole Peapod Farm series STEPPING STONES • APPLE CRUSH • SUGAR SHACK

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Scripture Reflection

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother'—which is the first commandment with a promise—'so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.' Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

— Ephesians 6:1-4

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