Concern Level: Medium-Low
The main character goes to a middle school dance and dances with a boy which leads to a 'courting' scene, as described in the book, where the main cha... → Continue reading below
Red, White and Whole
VERDICT: Prayerfully Consider
Concern Level: Medium-Low

Concern LevelMedium-Low
Concerning & Potentially Concerning Content
The main character goes to a middle school dance and dances with a boy which leads to a 'courting' scene, as described in the book, where the main character and a boy share a quick kiss. There is no mention of boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship and at the end of the book the boy she kissed is described as her friend. All that said, the kiss is still something a parent would want to discuss and set expectations with for their child if they allow them to read this. The main character is Hindu and has some Hindu religious stories, cultural differences and distinctions. Reincarnation is mentioned. It is not overt and constant but it is there. The mom quits college to have an arranged marriage to someone who plans to move to America. The 'god of death' is mentioned throughout the retelling of Hindu stories. The mother is diagnosed and dies from Leukemia, there are descriptions of intubation, chemotherapy, and the general process of death. For some younger or more sensitive readers this would be a lot to handle. Similarly, there is blood-related imagery throughout the novel, which is not graphic but if you have a squeamish reader this isn’t a great pick. There is some implied racism/cultural ignorance but it is fairly common things, like someone talking loudly to the main character because they don’t know if she speaks English. These situations are not described as racism but as almost a barrier between living as a community. For Christians, this book focuses on hard work and good behavior as the pillars of having a successful life. These are certainly not bad characteristics, but in Christ Alone is our strength rather than self-derived perseverance. This certainly should be discussed.
VerdictPrayerfully Consider
Our Thoughts
Seeing life through the eyes of someone else is one of the best things a book can do for a child. On the positive side, this story does do that as we experience through the eyes a child from an Indian heritage in a western culture. There is a lot of juxtapositions in the book as the main character is juggling between two worlds. On the other hand, there are certainly quite a few aspects of this particular example that leave a lot to be desired (including what is listed in the section above). While everything wraps up with a message of being whole an understood, if this is not grasped by your child (or they don't finish the book) it can leave them simply with the memory of teenage angst in a more palatable form. With the mother's sickness and other elements this is not a 'light' book and some may find the sad feel to be something they don't enjoy. Similarly, the 'free verse' writing style and the potentially confusing timeline are also not for everyone. This is a pre-teen type book that some will walk away having enjoyed and others will feel at best 'meh' about.
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An #ownvoices novel in verse about an Indian American girl whose life is turned upside down when her mother is diagnosed with leukemia. Reha feels torn between two worlds: school, where she's the only Indian American student, and home, with her family's traditions and holidays. But Reha's parents don't understand why she's conflicted—they only notice when Reha doesn't meet their strict expectations. Reha feels disconnected from her mother, or Amma, although their names are linked—Reha means “star” and Punam means “moon”—but they are a universe apart. Then Reha finds out that her Amma is sick. Really sick. Reha, who dreams of becoming a doctor even though she can't stomach the sight of blood, is determined to make her Amma well again. She'll be the perfect daughter, if it means saving her Amma's life.
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Short storyline review. Very thankful for Redeemed Reader.
We are not a fan of comments like, 'Even when she's complaining, in typical middle school fashion'. Understand where this is coming from, but we should expect more of our Christian children. Does not mention the Hindu beliefs or the kiss scene. Also, the medical emergency seems a bit understated from a warning perspective.
Read ReviewDo you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. 'I have the right to do anything,' you say—but not everything is beneficial. 'I have the right to do anything'—but I will not be mastered by anything.
— 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
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