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Just Sayin'

VERDICT: HIGHLY Recommended
 (with caution)

Concern Level: Medium

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Concerning & Potentially Concerning Content

We should say up front this is a solid Christian story. Here we will list the content that you will need to consider to determine if it is a good fit for your Christian kiddo. Upon reading, we realize right up front there is a bit of a serious thread running through this title. In the first letter we find out the plot revolves around a breakup between two adults who deeply cared about each other, leaving two sets of kids (Cassie on one side and Nick & Julie on the other) who are separated after feeling convinced they would be family. In fact the first letter is Cassie writing to her mom who has left her with her grandmother due to the pain of the breakup. We also read about the tragic death of Cassie’s father in the past. While we certainly don’t want to overstate the weight of the book, as it is mostly light, this may be a bit of a heavy subject for some. The other big item to know about is that a big part of the plot revolves around comedy that is best described as “mild insults”. You can tell the author really attempts to be intentional with this, but some parts are better at walking this line than others. This runs cover to cover. We see a few names (e.g., camel-breath) and common jokes, such as those about people being older. Here are some examples to give you a feel so you can decide for your kiddo. “You are a habit I would like to kick… with both feet” Insult King says, “I told him that if I decided to kill myself, I’d climb to the top of his ego and jump to his IQ” (great example of going too far to be funny). One joke involves drinking poison (clearly a joke) One of Cassie’s jokes include an irreverent punch line about the Last Supper A whole list of potential insults is shown in a letter. None are meant to be about anyone specific, but there are a few unfortunate ones (“You’re so ugly, I’ll bet when your mom dropped you off at school, she got a fine for littering”. At the final insult contest, we see Cassie starting to change her ways, but other characters use fat jokes, ugly jokes, intelligence jokes, insults. Related to the last item, the kids meet their “hero”, named the “King of Insults”. This guy starts off very rude. It is his whole persona (although his growth and change over the book is really neat to see). At first we read lines where he is intentionally being as rude as possible (e.g., “If you’d run away from home like a normal kid, your ma wouldn’t have had to”. In one important part of the story, Cassie and Nick write to their parents pretending to be someone else. They make this worse by justifying it as OK (even try to justify it in a letter to Jesus). Related to this, and with really good intentions, Nick sneaks away from home, taking a bus trip across the country (leaves a note explaining reasoning). A few other items to be aware of: A flashback memory is shared of the two main characters sneaking to watch a show about insults their parents didn’t like. Pastor Mike asks Cassie if she is the one putting sermon critiques in the offering plate (implied yes). There is an instance of Cassie writing letters in church. There is a mention of santa with an unfortunate comment, “He wrote back and said I’d been a good girl, so I figured he didn’t really see me when I was awake”. Cassie sees a group of guys who “looked like they could star in a gangland-murder movie”. It mentions a Beatles T-shirt. Nick tells Julie she is “not a good liar” A man on a bus is drinking out of a flask, which spills. We find out then it was in fact whiskey.

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Our Thoughts

The artistic, unique format for this one will grab young readers attention right away as the book is told completely through letters sent between the characters. Eventually we see the main character Cassie writing to her pastor and it culminates with her writing directly to Jesus (she starts out writing to God, but finds that writing to Jesus comes more naturally, saying, “You’ve been down here on earth… so I figure you probably get it”). Cassie’s youth pastor explains that the Word of God is like God / Jesus writing to you, sharing supporting verses (Matthew 7:7 and Lamentations 2:19). This story revolves around a central hardship, a really hard separation. This is an uncommon topic and fortunately the author uses it as a chance to show how hard this is on these young characters (whereas the culture often makes divorce and separation seem like no big deal). It is handled really well. Throughout we find out that the adults have a sincere, deep faith. The families go to church regularly, including youth group. We even hear mention of things like premarital counseling through a church. Church is held in a very positive light and at one point we hear of a community health center run there. There are several scriptural references thorough, including things like the Golden Rule and Jesus’ response about the man born blind (Jn. 9). This is the story of an imperfect shield sincerely seeking God. It is really great to see her grow. Cassie, who has always been known for clever, but borderline insults, starts to see the importance of her words. She looks up 3 verses on the importance of wholesome speech. This starts to have her second guess her insult. She eventually asks someone how these insults have made them feel in the past and apologies. It is also just refreshing to see great relationships between imperfect, but solid characters played out over a story. There is a young girl Julie who has special needs and illnesses and Cassie writes the most beautiful letters to her and her brother Nick is also sweet and kind. The content in the section above needs to be considered for your particular reader, but like most really solid Christian books, let them read it just as soon as they are ready as it really has some great faith-building content. A really neat addition to our list of Christian options for parents from the author of Winnie the Horse Gentler and many others (over 400 for different audiences). One we HIGHLY Recommend. – Just Sayin’ tells the story of an almost-blended family that almost falls apart before it even begins. 11 year-old Cassie Callahan is staying with her grandmother while her mom, Jennifer, recovers from a difficult breakup from her fiancé, Trent. Cassie, along with Trent’s kids, Nick and Julie, are trying to figure out why their parents’ relationship ended so abruptly and searching for a way to bring them back together. Meanwhile, the kids get caught up in a game show that encourages the “art” of insults, and learn along the way that our words have much more power than they think. In a way that only Dandi can accomplish, this story weaves together, in a contemporary way, an old-time game show, letter writing, outstanding vocabulary, and reminders from God’s word that taming our tongue is both difficult and important!

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Just Sayin' by Dandi Daley Mackall tells the story of an almost-blended family that almost falls apart before it even begins. 11 year-old Cassie Callahan is staying with her grandmother while her mom, Jennifer, recovers from a difficult breakup from her fiancé, Trent. Cassie, along with Trent's kids, Nick and Julie, are trying to figure out why their parents' relationship ended so abruptly and searching for a way to bring them back together.

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Scripture Reflection

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. See to it that no one takes you captive through hollow and deceptive philosophy, which depends on human tradition and the elemental spiritual forces of this world rather than on Christ.

— Colossians 2:6-8

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