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Heartstopper: Volume One

VERDICT: Avoid

Concern Level: High

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Concerning & Potentially Concerning Content

We want to say this very directly up front. Make no mistake about it, this uber-popular graphic novel (and resulting Netflix series) is something no Christian should ever subject themselves to… and should certainly never allow their child or teen to read/watch.

We will list the concerning content here and share more of our heart in the next section. (remember as you read this, all of this is delivered in a short, colorful graphic novel format that young children are inevitably be drawn to)

The biggest concern to know about is the overall feel and message. This book pulls young readers into a highly, highly emotionally charged story they are familiar with from countless stories but perverted here, adds in a sense of desire for justice for the main character who has been bullied, mixes in a budding “romance” between two people who seem destined for each other… all illustrated and presented in a way that normalizes homosexuality and makes it all seem so natural and right despite God very clearly telling us it is the complete opposite of that.

Here are the details to bring this content into the light:

  • This colorful illustrated book starts on page 1 with a drawing of a text conversation trying to find a location. We come to realize the book is launching with two teen boys finding a hookup spot at their school. So, on page 2 we see Charlie (main character) and this other boy (Ben) making out, illustrated before our eyes (or should we say, before young readers eyes).
  • The next shock to the system comes when we quickly return to this text conversation to see Ben frustrated and we literally see two variations of the F-word (“F---“ and “F---ing) spelled out on page. Again, remember… graphic novel. To give an example of how boldly this comes across, young readers see things like, “Stop, you f---ing prick!” and “I’m such an idiot, such a f----ing idiot”
  • By the end of this short book, we believe we counted 15 uses of the F-word. Each time shown. And to make it worse, it is across many different characters, including those we are emotionally led to see as the “good guys” of the story.
  • In another shocking moment, we see drawn out Ben actually forces himself on Charlie. We see Charlie begging him to stop with tears in his eyes.
  • To further confuse and pull young readers away from biblical views we see Ben embracing a girlfriend later in the story even as he aggressively pursues Charlie.
  • As the person Charlie will “fall for” (Nick) comes into the picture, we see Charlie day-dream about him, hoping he will say, “Charlie… I’m gay too, and I’m in love with you. Will you go out with me?”
  • Some of the most heart wrenchingly sad parts of this is seeing the emotional playing out of this gay attraction. We see all the small flirty looks, soft touches, accidental embraces, etc. that we are used to from normal heterosexual relationships. We even see the stereotypical scene where someone helps instruct in playing the drums by coming behind the other person and “guiding” them in a scene that turns romantic. But here it is aimed at something God calls wrong and perverted, presented as good and ok.
  • The s-word is also used multiple times, again spelled out. We also read, “kick his a—” with the last word shown.
  • We see bold-faced lying from Charlie.
  • We see illustrated multiple romantic embraces.
  • There are also many different crude derogatory statements like, “He’s kind of a dick”, “Ben’s such a dick”, “all my other friends are dickheads”, etc.
  • The language proceeds to include multiple flippant uses of “Oh my God”, “for God’s sake”, etc.
  • We see Jesus’ name used in vain a couple times.
  • Nick turns to a search engine and we see him submitting questions like “Am I gay?” and “I like girls but now I like a boy” and being presented with pages and tests he can take.
  • A seemingly wise teacher shares that, “gay and straight aren’t the only two options”.
  • To further reinforce to young readers how “normal” this all should be, Nick sees a girl he hasn’t seen in years and, you guessed it, she’s gay now too.
  • Nick, who is supposed to be all kind and sweet, shouts two of the F-words at someone, to which the previously mentioned gay girl’s girlfriend comments, “I actually love him”.
Our Thoughts

This is one of the genuinely saddest things we have come across in quite some time. This book in an emotional story that completely perverts the age old “falling head over heels” story by both rewriting for homosexual young men and filling it with things like modern “hook up” culture and absolutely horrendous language. Oh, and then delivering it in a light feeling, artistic graphic novel format (inevitably falling into the hands of young children) with an end effect of trying to completely normalize something the Bible clearly and without question lists alongside some of the worst offenses of man. The effect? A Netflix show and a growing “community” of supporters the author said was at nearly 90,000 followers on Tumblr and Tapas.

But we would venture to guess that the true saddest thing in God’s eyes is the Christian response… or really lack there of in the “review” community. When we looked for reviews to include here we first off found very little, but what we did find was shocking. One of the reviews from a source that is supposed to be Christian basically encourages the book, ending with an uber sad statement pointing to different Christians feeling different about this topic and a hand wave towards “open mindedness”. Then arguably the most well-known Christian review source reviews the show with no bold statements and a simple comment at the end indicating it might be “a leap that will likely be too big a gap for many, if not most, Christian families.”

We will stand boldly here. No Christian should ever read this book… especially not impressionably children and teens (the actual target audience of graphic novels). We are called to love, but it is truth in love. Filling our minds and our kids minds with profanity laden emotional heart string pulls towards accepting something God has called sinful is not being loving. It is being worldly and it is a sin against our loving God.

Where does this pursuit of the world lead? The author’s bio very tellingly includes “questioning the meaninglessness of existence” in the list of things she’s fond of. We fortunately have a much, much better story. Our job as Christians is to offer this, the True Story, to everyone… not to get down and wallow around in the mud and mire and call it good.

This is a clear Avoid for Christians.

Plot Summary

Note: This information is typically from the publisher.

Use with caution

Boy meets boy. Boys become friends. Boys fall in love. A bestselling LGBTQ+ graphic novel about life, love, and everything that happens in between.

Charlie and Nick are at the same school, but they’ve never met … until one day when they’re made to sit together. They quickly become friends, and soon Charlie is falling hard for Nick, even though he doesn’t think he has a chance.

But love works in surprising ways, and Nick is more interested in Charlie than either of them realised.

By Alice Oseman, winner of the YA Book Prize, Heartstopper is about love, friendship, loyalty and mental illness. It encompasses all the small stories of Nick and Charlie’s lives that together make up something larger, which speaks to all of us.

This is the first volume of Heartstopper, which is now an acclaimed live-action Netflix series.

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Other Reviews for this Book

Christian Review
Geeks Under Grace
Warnings

This is a heartbreaking review. This organization has all of the right "About Us" and "What we believe" material for their site, but then to see material like this is unthinkable. Here is a comment on the horrendous language in this book, "That said, the dialogue is great. The teenagers talk like they do in real life (the author’s young age at publication may have something to do with her mastery over youth dialogue). Strong language abounds, but it’s not without purpose" What a sad perspective. But the revealing moment comes here after pages of positive review that would nudge parents and children towards this completely dangerous story, "You may be wondering why Geeks Under Grace, a Christian site, is covering a gay romance. Heartstopper is very popular right now, especially with teenagers, but this is not the only reason I wanted to write this review. GUG is made up of Christians from all denominations and walks of life. Some of our reviewers believe it is a sin to act on homosexual feelings; others may have a different interpretation of Scripture... Regardless of your views on homosexuality, this review is intended to encourage discussion and open-mindedness. " This is so dangerous. We as Christians are not called to be "open-minded" about things God has ultra-clearly called a sin. We are called to love, 100%. But that is not what this is. This is painting in a positive light a resource that pushes people (and in this case children) to a worldly, completely unbiblical mindset on homosexuality and identity.

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Christian Review
Plugged In
Our Thoughts on this Review

NOTE: This review is for the TV Show

Warnings

Again, could not be more sad here. It is interesting if follows a very similar format, starting with a long write-up with content that won't stir up protest, ending with a head nod to our faith: "But the central focus on LGBT stories is inescapable here. And the narrative clearly invites us to make the leap from sympathizing with these characters’ harsh and unjust treatment to affirming the sexual identities that set them apart—a leap that will likely be too big a gap for many, if not most, Christian families." How sad. We can't imagine how many parents themselves and how many children/teens watched this show due to a lack of a bold stance here. While this one is less agregious than the GUG review, it is still a sad example of Christians falling short in calling evil what it is... evil.

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Secular Review (use with Caution!)
Common Sense Media
Warnings

We include this as a reminder why Christian parents need faithful Christian review sources.

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Scripture Reflection

The law of the Lord is perfect, refreshing the soul. The statutes of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple. The precepts of the Lord are right, giving joy to the heart. The commands of the Lord are radiant, giving light to the eyes. The fear of the Lord is pure, enduring forever. The decrees of the Lord are firm, and all of them are righteous. They are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the honeycomb. By them your servant is warned; in keeping them there is great reward.

— Psalm 19:7-11