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El Deafo

VERDICT: Avoid

Concern Level: Medium

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Concerning & Potentially Concerning Content

There are a surprising number of instances of smoking shown, typically in front of Cece (the main character). Cece’s mom smokes (and appears to drink wine at one point). We see even more smoking when mom makes a new friend. Cece catches her sister smoking (who threatens her if she tells). We see a whole room of teachers smoking in the break room, one of a few instances of this (even worse, one teacher tells another a student is “making my life hell!”, to which 1st grade Cece laughs). We don’t see any place where this is shown as wrong. There is a big focus on watching TV, seemingly unmonitored by parents. Cece seemingly watches all types of TV even as a really young child (mentions soap opera, sitcoms, dramas). The saddest part of this comes when Cece says that the only time she can spend time with her older siblings is watching TV. At one point dad takes her to movies with subtitles after she loses her hearing. Leaving he says, “I’m not sure these movies are all appropriate for you… that was a lot of skin”. Early on there is a bit of heaviness as little 4-year-old Cece gets really sick all of a sudden and has to go to the hospital. This is shown in a decent bit of detail to show the seriousness of it. She ends up losing her hearing, which is obviously traumatic. Early on when Cece comes home from the hospital she remarks, “Miracle of miracles, my siblings are being nice to me” (a heartbreaking comment revolving around a very common secular view of how families function). The main character gets nude or mostly nude a few times (e.g., when changing). The illustration style showing the characters as not exactly human-looking makes this not come across as nudity normally would, but good to know it is there to weigh for your reader. A new friend tells Cece to look down her shirt and spell “attic”, with the book spelling out the inappropriate result. Later we see Cece thinking that a friend’s dad is “dreamy”. There is quite a bit of focus on her crush on a neighborhood boy. He says he wants to use her hearing aid microphone for ‘fun’ at school. Cece thinks it “sounds like trouble” and doesn’t want to, but then says, “but for Mike Miller I’d do anything” (a terrible comment to put in front of young children). The result? While they are supposed to be doing silent math with the teacher out of the room uses Cece and her microphone to spy on the teacher, holding a mini-party in the room. Once Cece hears her coming back (again from smoking) in the microphone they all sit and pretend they were working. Worst off, this is never shown as wrong. In fact, the opposite happens, with Cece glowing at the attention she is getting from her classmates, very proud of her deception. Other parts of the book to be aware of: At 4 years old Cece is shown drawing on her mother’s mirror with lipstick and watching Batman on TV. There is a place in the story where Cece gets rude and even kicks her mother (out of place with most of her behavior). There are multiple images of a character vomiting. We also see an image early on of Cece getting a shot in the spine. Later she runs into a tree and pokes her eye with blood shown. There is quite a bit of focus around sleepovers, which many Christian parents are wary or at least cautious of. At one point we see a group of girls sneaking into the host’s brother’s bedroom. We see references to Monty Python, Van Halen and the Beatles. We see the following words/phrases: dumb, stupid, butt, ‘holy hearing aid Batman’ and holy cow. A group of girl scouts get together and sing songs where potty terms are repeated over and over. A teacher is reading a story and says, “His flesh is rotting off those mean bones, and maggots are creeping in his eye sockets and crawling out his nose holes”.

Our Thoughts

How do you end up with a book like this with a format and illustrations that make it look like it is without a doubt intended for very young children, yet containing references to things like Van Halen, the Beatles, Monty Python as well as multiple instances of characters smoking cigarettes (mom, mom’s friend, older sister, seemingly every teacher at school)? Enter Graphic Memoirs, where an adult tells their experience of growing up in the 70s (in this case), 80s or 90s in a way that is often much less filtered than you would expect (see our review of Hey Kiddo for an extreme example of this). These stories are held up as moving and brave, loved by critics… all the while forgetting who it is primarily that picks up these graphic novels and reads them. We believe how the overall message is delivered matters… the 90% of the story leading up to the ending is important. For that reason, this is one we believe Christian parents should Avoid. Note: See the secular review below for an example of this being a very real concern.

Plot SummaryNote: This information is typically from the publisher.Use with caution

Starting at a new school is scary, even more so with a giant hearing aid strapped to your chest! At her old school, everyone in Cece's class was deaf. Here she is different. She is sure the kids are staring at the Phonic Ear, the powerful aid that will help her hear her teacher. Too bad it also seems certain to repel potential friends. Then Cece makes a startling discovery. With the Phonic Ear she can hear her teacher not just in the classroom, but anywhere her teacher is in school — in the hallway... in the teacher's lounge... in the bathroom! This is power. Maybe even superpower! Cece is on her way to becoming El Deafo, Listener for All. But the funny thing about being a superhero is that it's just another way of feeling different... and lonely. Can Cece channel her powers into finding the thing she wants most, a true friend? This funny perceptive graphic novel memoir about growing up hearing impaired is also an unforgettable book about growing up, and all the super and super embarrassing moments along the way.

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Other Reviews for this Book

Christian Review
Redeemed Reader
Warnings

Very disappointing review from a Christian source (especially the age/maturity rating). Besides one comment at the end, nearly completely devoid of concerning content warnings.

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Christian Review
Plugged In
Our Thoughts on this Review

On the plus side, they do attempt to list the concerning content.

Warnings

Great example of how the format of this site can make it easy to miss higher-level, very important overall takeaways that should concern Christian parents.

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Secular Review (use with Caution!)
Attack of the Books!
Our Thoughts on this Review

We wanted to include this one because it is a perfect example of what we are talking about concerning the audience. Think about the concerning content we mention above. This reviewer, likely seeing the cute illustrations, says the book was “floating around her 8-year old’s room for a while”, saying she read it many times, eventually leading to the reviewer to read it to their 5-year old. This is exactly what we mean with the content/delivery/format not matching the inevitable audience. This saddens us so much.

Warnings

Little to no mention of concerning content.

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Scripture Reflection

You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

— Matthew 5:14-16

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